I can't imagine that being true. Yes, I'm sure they don't jump up and yell "WHORE!" (guilty as charged) Ladies wants real sex Munnsville but I can't imagine them not mentioning right/wrong as they get to the root of the problem: WHY that person does what he/she does. I also get moral relativism but some predicaments people get themselves into (*cough*cough* OP) seriously? The part that chaps my hide is that she admits she's got a problem that she has zero intention of fixing. The only problem she wants to address is how to keep her on the side happy and interested in her. She shows zero concern/remorse for what she's doing not only for her spouse but her -! I seriously have a hard time wrapping my head around it a "mother" that has put her sex life ahead of her. It boggles my mind. If you can, however, put yourself in a position to not judge such an individual (though I doubt that's % true) then you, sir, are far better at controlling your reactions than me.