lite housekeeping Look, lots of people have someone come in, and if you get a single freelance Pennington Gap person, it is cheaper than an agency like Maids. There is a trust issue, tho, so ask around, and sometimes a high school student you know, or a stay home mom, or someone who cleans offices take this up on the side. there are plenty of people who have had breast cancer, can't lift their arm-have help come in to keep everything for them. Or have just lost their wife due to death, and have a help come in to freshen up the house and be a bit of chat for a few hours. You should have no problem, ask around and don't listen to these yahoos who are meanie weanies on CL. I dont think either of us can take it much longer! at the end of last year I got a job and our income went up a bunch whoohoo! We lived in low income apts at the time and went over the income limit so had to move. Guess thats a good reason to get kicked out. So we looked for a rental found one that was going to be done in a month right before Christmas. So we put our stuff in storage and moved in with his mom while the place was being finished. story short The place is still to this day not ready and we have been staying with his mom now for going on 3 months! ALSO His father passed away just before Christmas, and we probably 98% be getting the land and building a house as he passed away in a house fire. We are just waiting on insurance to settle. So now we dont even know If we should be getting a trailer to live in while building, something could still fall through with inheriting the land and getting approved to build. or moving into this rental that is now almost ready. In any case We are both (me in particular) going INSANE living with his mom. I hate going home at night never feel like I have a place to unwind. With everything going on we rarely have time one on one together, he works 12 to 7 I work 8-5 so week days get shot mostly just with work as well. I find myself constantly mad and feeling angry at my Husband because of all of this, not blaming him but I just feel mad at him. He has time for friends after work since he doesn't have to go to bed nearly as early on that note I only have one friend that is local anymore and we have such awkward schedules that we rarely each other. I find I am mad and jealous that he has time for friends and I don't feel like he has time for me and I am stuck hanging out with his mom and step dad which I hate doing, shes a nice but there is only so much of her I can deal with. SIGH