I posted a few days ago about my ex being a cheater. I immediately went and got checked for STDs and Adult want casual sex Durhamville yep, the nurse came back with a plastic cup and a heavy dose of antibiotics. And so I get to deal with that extra layer of betrayal. I've spent my days spending time with friends, working out, and possibly "over venting". Basiy, I've hashed out the story enough times that I can tell it without crying and it's hurting so much less. But I'm suddenly feeling ashamed of how people I've told about it. Everyone has been super supportive and awesome to me. The problem is now I'm worried about: 1) Gossip. I told 5 girlfriends about the STD. And now about 9 know (that I know know) and I hate that my business is going to spread. Besides asking, "don't tell anyone?" Is there anyway to minimize this? 2) Several want to say something to him if they him out. I've asked them not to, but .I just want to forget about it and move on. I guess I can't control this one but . 3) He's contacted a few times this week and I've ignored. His last message just asked to meet. Part of me wants to what he has to say and the other part says just keep ignoring. Thoughts?