posted from another forum, thought I'd give it a try here Heres the story. I'M DESPERATELY trying to enjoying anal. Its been years asian girls looking for sex Ponce Puerto Rico and no mater what I do, I can't get it to work. I've tried Using a few fingers in the shower/shower to loosen Using two fingers while masturbating Using a dry finger ( not suppose to do that but whatever) Starting off small and adding more and more to stretch and masturbating with a dildo or prostate massager inside me playing "outside" without always going in Taking everything VERY slow -Toy wise I've tried.,- Two different dildos ( one 6' one 8") two aneros prostate massagers a rudeboy prostate massager butt plugs (one small, one medium, one WAY to big one I can't use yet) and an inflatable butt plug a penis! ( the worse of all) used.. oil, ky "ultragel" Id millennium silicone lube Anal Eaze ("desensitizing lube that BURNED!) JO brand Lube ( also burned) Gun oil silicone lube and ID moments (Hypoallergenic, paraben and glycerin free) ( I wondered if I was allergic to some ingredient in some lubes and this didn't burn but the silicons didn't burn so I guess not) poppers breathing exercises meditation music on and etc. vicks vapo rub I am LITERALLY AT THE END OF MY ROPE! i've tried everything but no matter what I try im not able to enjoy it. I've gotten comfortable to the point where I can take my eight inch dildo no problem without stretching beforehand but the second I start any movement at all it just feels like " yep ..somethings moving in my ass" I start very slow moving literally 1 billionth of an inch and slowing (very) moving up but nothing good. I try all sorts of positions. still nothing. I've read and read and read and searched but nothing works for me I'm completely comfortable with anal sex don't believe " some people just can't bottom". What I'm looking for is information from someone who knows what their doing and can tell me from experience what worked for them. My next step it getting high on weed and doing it.. I really nothing to try other than that and getting hypnotherapy ( hardy harr harr). I'm wondering if something is wrong with my body , like if my my prostate is "broken" and to why some lube burns me ( but thats a story for another time) THANKS!!