the whole "marriage and party" is not for everyone. and these are very serious life decisions that have to be right for YOU, not something to check off your bucket list. like i said, eggs are at their healthiest when a woman is 35 or younger. that said, freezing your eggs at 39 is no guarantee that you have. it is simply a guarantee that you have 39 year old eggs that have been preserved. it certainly doesn't have any bearing on finding a good partner, or whether you would make a suitable parent. honestly, if you really want to a, you should consider all the options. there are who are already here, who are hungry for adults to parent them, and in desperate need of a family. why would you drop $15, on the possibility of a bio , rather than consider adopting a who is already here? i'm not a big fan of the "i want another little me in the world" mentality. parenting is parenting. i would focus on finding a good relationship and becoming more selfless. the whole vibe of your post, coupled with your later responses make me question whether this issue is even real in the first place.