Would you go to a place that excluded a group of people? men only? (no way) All men? ( sure, I like women only spaces). It's weird when places exclude non-op or pre-op trans. It's couples wants flirt nobody's business what someone does with their body I think. That's between them and their doctor. Curiously there is a swinger party in NY that excludes only single men so male couples have to prove they are at the door (not sure what that entails). I have a friend who goes. They don't want a surplus of single men. Of course that is NY. Rest of the country is probably more homophobic including swingers.