commitment? Seems to me he isn't interested in moving forward, and being your partner in things. He's got all he wants, and is quite comfy in the life you guys have made over 8 years. Where is his incentive to change? You've proven you'll keep doing things the way he wants. So are you going to give an ultimatum, or what? X

and it can't be beat for finding just about every show you can imagine. I used to buy cheap videos and DVDs, but they're bulky and take up so much space. Now I stream much anything on my notebook. It's no wonder so video/DVD rental joints are going out of business. They cost more; they have late fees. It's nice to have everything at your fingertips without having to leave the house to get what you need (except maybe a walk to the mailbox).