I am not asking about first experiences I am asking when you first became aware of "the birds and the bees." When and how did it happen? For me, it was about age 8. I stumbled across my dad's stash of Penthouse mags (plus a few more raunchy publications). I then asked my female cousin about it (she was "old" at 11, lol) and she proceeded to explain sex to me by simulating the act, which my mother promptly walked in on. We giggled in hysterics mom did not think it was all that funny, lol. I got the "textbook" explanation after that. I must say I enjoyed my cousin's method of teaching better!

I can understand him feeling distant, going back to square one would make sense after arriving to the conclusion that the relationship is over.. But casual encounters are a search for something dirty. It doesn't say "I'm leaving bitch want for sex you for someone -".. Casual encounters say "I'm gonna go screw someone and come right back to you when I'm done" No way I would trust anyone after a stunt like that. Who knows.. I could be wrong, I can't say I have enough information to support that claim.. But as a symbol of loyalty towards myself, I refuse to deal with casual encounters even when I'm single. Anyone that can contemplate cheating hard enough to send a reply to a random encounter is already on the road to infidelity. From what I, bi people are mostly bi because of lust and for that reason are very indecisive about what they want and rarely on the search for -or- they search to satisfy their lust even when looking for a LTR.. I believe gays are more diplomatic about the way they do things. There's more "order" in the community, even behind all the chaos, and a lot less controversy when it comes to relationships in comparison to what bi people go through.. New Zealand ski extended ______________________________  15 Sep 08 – “The Mt Ruapehu ski in the central North Island has been extended after some of the best snow falls on record. “Ruapehu Alpine Lifts, operator of Mt Ruapehu ski area, announced today that it would extend the ski by weeks. “Mt Ruapehu marketing manager Smith said the continuous snowfalls from mid-July to late were responsible for the extension. "A few weeks ago we announced that Turoa had the biggest snow base ever recorded at any New Zealand ski area ( cm) and we are happy to say the base has since grown even further and currently stands at cm." “Mr Smith said the base was heading towards an unheard of 5m metres, with more snow predicted this week.